Marie’s Journal

When it comes to giving your sex life a boost, sometimes calling your wife, partner, mistress etc on the phone and talking dirty to them.

It doesn’t hurt for the female to do this either for their partner… giving a thrill works both ways. I found this article from The Men’s Network on Phone and Sex and thought you might be interested in it…

Sometimes, even if you have a regular and active sex life, it is a lot of fun to talk dirty to your partner over the phone. Whether you talk about what you did last night, what you want to do to her this weekend (or what you want her to do to you) or whether you just weave a fantasy, talking on the phone has an entirely different sexual dynamic than talking in person.

If you or your girlfriend is shy, you also might find it easier to find your sexual tongue on the phone than face to face. Even people who live together find talking about sex on the phone feels totally different than talking together in person.

A lunchtime call from the office can lead to a ‘quickie’ over the phone to make the rest of the day go by a little faster. And for most people, telling their deepest sexual fantasies comes much more easily when they cannot see the person they are talking to.

That is probably the reason so many dollars are spent on commercial phone sex. The difference here is that you are telling a person you care about, and that can make your fantasies come to life.

Talking on the phone often somehow feels more intimate than talking in person. It also leaves one hand free if you should happen to find that all that talk makes you want to masturbate. You can tell your fantasy in a present tense as if you were describing something that was happening at that minute.

‘I am taking off your bra. Your nipples stand up as I suck on them’.

That way, your partner can take over from time to time ‘It feels wonderful when you suck on them. Don’t stop’.

By sharing your fantasies on the phone, you can weave amazing fantasies that include things you would have trouble doing in person, or that you wouldn’t really want to do but like the idea of. Also if you or your girlfriend have fantasies about being other people - a pirate and his captive maiden or a rich woman and the gardener -it’s sometimes easier to do it on the phone.

You and your wife or girlfriend can also weave fantasies from which you can take your next encounter together. You can learn a little more about what each of you like and dislike sexually, and which are the best parts, and next time you can do those more.

This is also a wonderful way to spend your nights when you’re out of town. A romantic phone call to say ‘I miss you’ can become an amazing sexual encounter that will keep both of you tingling all the next day.

If your lover is unsure, but is open to listening, the first time you try this she may mostly listen. If you feel awkward, you can start slow with things that you like about her, and what your favourite things are that she does to you.

This won’t take as much creative thought, and won’t feel as risky as telling a deep-seated fantasy. Or you can talk about the first time you had sex together.

What it felt like, how good it was. Once again, this is not as sexual as you would probably like to get, but starting slow might be more comfortable.

Phone sex with your partner can give whole new dimensions to your sexual feelings for each other, and make being apart a lot more fun.

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Some guys have no idea at all how to act or react around women. So when the time comes for them to walk up to a babe in a bar and try to chat her up, he fails…

I’ve been searching the net in hopes to find ways that may help those guys and I came across this article thanks to a site called Attract Sexy Women

The article is called 3 Seconds…

Even if you really cannot think of anything to initiate a conversation with a girl, whatever you do, don’t break the 3s rule! Act in 3 seconds nevertheless, even if you have no idea, how to continue. If you act in 3 seconds, she will notice it, no matter where she just popped in from or where you popped in from or how you happened to pass each other by in a given geographical location.

She will see the spontaneity in your approach and it will work in your favour. If however you wait and hesitate and then decide to approach, you are in a decidedly weaker situation. The 3 second rule is extremely important, in one night using this rule you can talk to many ladies…….

If you just arrived and accessed her in 3 seconds, she will know it was spontaneous because she noticed you arrive whether she wanted to or not - you were a change in a static environment. Or if she just arrived and you accessed her in 3 seconds, she will recognise the spontaneity of it again, because you couldn’t have accessed her before - she simply had not yet arrived.

If however you just pop out of nowhere - she didn’t see you arrive neither did she just arrive and the only change in a static environment was you accessing her - you just might set off her stalker alarm. Who knows, how long you’ve been following her or watching her in secret or gobbling her up with your eyes.

Spooky! Argh, get away you freak! So the only way to avoid a situation like that is to use the 3s rule.

Besides not setting off any alarms of her because of the obvious spontaneity of your approach, you are also doing yourself a favour.

In three seconds, you have no time to become sweaty, trembling, stuttering - to acquire all the sure-fire signs of an AFC lacking any confidence, substance or consequence, a failure with women and life in general, a complete repellent of beautiful girls.

So even if you start sweating, stuttering and trembling while talking to her, you weren’t that way when you initiated contact - you just didn’t have the time for that.

And it’s the first impression that counts. And if that first impression of you was that of a confident and spontaneous man, her feelings for you were positive from the start, which in turns greatly the diminishes the chances of you turning into a plateful of jelly while having a conversation with her.

The 3 seconds rule of course is not an absolute - you may simply not have noticed her, while not specifically being tied up with something that might have stopped you from approaching her, or while still noticing her, you might have been busy with something (or somebody:).

The three seconds start counting from the moment you have spotted her AND are free to approach. But when these two conditions are met, you really don’t have the time to ponder, whether or not SHE noticed that you didn’t approach her because you were either too busy or simply oblivious - the clock is ticking, so move it!

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